Playing With Fire

Dr. Joli Hamilton and Ken Hamilton

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Welcome to Playing With Fire, the podcast for people who are ready to custom-build their love. We’re talking about non-monogamy–however you design it–as an individuation opportunity. Want to leave the default and make your life spectacularly you? You’re in the right place.

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Recent episodes

  • 263 Creative, Conscious, Chosen MonogamyOct 31, 2026 · 48 min
  • 262 My Partner Isn’t as Excited as I Am: Asymmetry in the Opening ProcessOct 24, 2026 · 40 min
  • 261 Can You Love More Than One Person and Still Feel Secure? Love, Grief, and Growth with Lunarosa PeraltaOct 17, 2026 · 58 min
  • 260 ‘I feel seen… but not by you’ – Metamours, Jealousy, and DifferentiationOct 10, 2026 · 39 min
  • 259 Getting Unstuck: How a Frozen Imagination Blocks the Relationship You WantOct 3, 2026 · 55 min
  • 258 Patterns of Harm Need Patterns of Repair: Rethinking ClosureSep 26, 2026 · 33 min
  • 257 Conflict as Growth: Deepening Intimacy through DisagreementSep 19, 2026 · 51 min
  • 256 Leaving High-Demand Religion and Exploring Non-Monogamy with Natasha HelferSep 12, 2026 · 49 min
  • 255 When should we start making agreements in NEW relationships?Sep 5, 2026 · 49 min
  • 254 How to Figure Out What You Want and Need: An Insider’s Experience of YOOAug 29, 2026 · 1 hr 5 min

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