Outwitting the Manipulator

Dr. Dennis Becker & Robin Golinski

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Manipulation doesn’t announce itself. It shows up mid-sentence, mid-meeting, mid-argument — and by the time you realize what happened, it’s over. Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski — communication experts with 50+ years of combined experience — break down the tactics manipulators use and hand you specific, practical techniques to respond in real time. No therapy-speak. No ”just set boundaries” advice that sounds great on paper and falls apart the second someone pushes back. Each episode tackles a specific manipulation tactic — gaslighting, shame, trust erosion, reframing, and more — and gives you the language and strategy to hold your ground while it’s happening. Not after...

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