What If People Find Out? with James Barr & Kalvin Ryder

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What If People Find Out? is a podcast about rejecting those secret, supposedly shameful parts of ourselves, and living in your own truth. Comedian James Barr and music executive-turned-therapist Kalvin Ryder are joined by guests from across arts and culture, to share the part of themselves that they have kept hidden... until now. Each conversation, filled with laughter and reflection, teaches us a bit about ourselves too. This is a podcast about occupying your space with zero shame and where being unapologetically you is celebrated. New episodes every Monday.

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Recent episodes

  • Chloe Caldwell on Fertility, Queerness & Blowing Up Her LifeMay 4, 2026 · 45 min
  • James & Kalvin on Authenticity, Secrecy & the WIPFO HotlineApr 27, 2026 · 29 min
  • Jaymi Hensley on Losing The Love of His Life, Navigating Grief & Union JApr 20, 2026 · 1 hr 9 min
  • Susie Green on Trans Rights, Mermaids & Fighting For Trans YouthApr 13, 2026 · 55 min
  • Andy Lee on Poverty, Homelessness & Finding His CommunityApr 6, 2026 · 40 min
  • James & Kalvin on Relationships, Boundaries & Being HonestMar 30, 2026 · 26 min
  • Saara Aalto on Living A Double Life, Eurovision & Coming OutMar 23, 2026 · 42 min
  • Lady Diana Whitmore on A Psychology Legend, Imposter Syndrome & ShameMar 16, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min
  • John Whaite on Refusing To Be a Palatable Gay Man, Sex & StrictlyMar 9, 2026 · 46 min
  • James Barr on Domestic Abuse, Therapy & Reclaiming His StoryMar 2, 2026 · 43 min

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